General Tips and Treasures

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My initial drive to join the 6 Week Online Money Make-Over was to smarten up about my super and shares and explore other forms of investing. An added bonus was the opportunity to connect with like-minded women who valued financial independence and confidence as much as I did. Over the couple of months that I was involved with the group I acted on a lot of tasks around my super and shares that historically I’d shown some procrastination towards. I learnt a lot from the women in my group. Oh,  and red wine also became a central theme of our sessions!

But there were also some unexpected outcomes from my time in the group.

In the first session I wrote down my one to two year goal and nervously read it out to the group. I’ve had a long held ambition to start doing my own consulting work, focusing on improving the quality of adult literacy and numeracy training, particularly for remote Aboriginal communities. To be honest, when I read it out I’d described the goal with such perfect clarity and detail I was embarrassed by it.

After the first hangout I pinned the planning sheet on my wardrobe door to remind myself of it, as I’d get ready for work. I started to make tentative steps towards it; they were small but important practical gestures. They included

  • Getting an ABN
  • Speaking to trusted and skilled people
  • Getting tax advice
  • Putting money aside for software programs
  • And lots of reading and research.


During this stage of my planning I reminded myself of Tim Minchin’s advice to be ‘micro-ambitious’. By detailing all the small action steps I needed to get done, I committed myself to completing these tasks and was not overwhelmed by the larger goal. The weekly GIG sessions with the terrific group of women I did it with also kept me accountable.

A month after putting this goal down on paper I was asked if I’d work on a project with an Indigenous organisation across remote cattle stations in Northern Australia. It couldn’t be better suited for me: I had the technical skills for it and the childhood experience of growing up on a cattle station. Since then, I’ve been approached on another literacy project in the Northern Territory. This has all happened in a few months since that uncomfortable moment of the program, reading out and making real what I wanted to do.

Zoe and the 10thousandgirl team have been the enablers and have prompted me to go after what I really love to do. They also linked me with other smart and strong women to learn from. In the occasional moments of self doubt I look at the “Why?” part of my goal planning sheet to remind myself of why what I’m doing is so important.

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easy ways to save

Can saving money really be painless?  Is it possible to actually enjoy saving money?

Here are our top five tips to make that a reality:

  1. Enjoy the Hunt:  make a game out of finding the best bargains.  Be an online shopping, group shopping and coupon site wizard.  Set yourself a budget and enjoy the challenge in getting the most for your money.
  2. Say Goodbye to Plastic:  become a cash-only shopper.  It feels amazing to walk out the shop knowing it’s well-and-truly paid for.  Learn to love that feeling!
  3. Never Run Out:  become a grocery list and planning champion.  Even if it’s not your thing, take time to appreciate how good it feels to buy in bulk, plan ahead and avoid last minute splurges.  Give yourself a big pat on the back for every packed lunch, coffee made at home or bus instead of a taxi.
  4. Be a Streaming Machine:  there’s loads you can do now free online by streaming, much more than simple entertainment.  Find a course on one of the free sites or stream your workout videos at home.  Other than the broadband costs, it can all be completely free.
  5. Get Out in your Community: get to know your local community resources and all the free events they have on offer.  There’s more than you think!  Set a goal of enjoying one or two new outings or groups each month. Bring a picnic to make it even more affordable. And invite your savings-minded friends along – they may thank you for it!

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Feel calm about money

Money decisions are incredibly important and should never be made in a rush or without clear thinking!  A clear calm mind will allow you to ask the right questions, understand your options and make decisions that you won’t regret.  So stay grounded and take it one step at a time.

  • Set your own clear goals first.  Think about what matters to you.  Decide what your financial goal is and write it down.  Come back to this as often as you need.
  • Choose trusted friends to confide in.  Be picky.  Look for those who have their own money life in order and who manage it in a way that you admire.  Let them know your goals and ask them to help keep you focussed.  If you’re facing a tough decision, ask yourself – what would they do?
  • Find the right advisors.  Take this slowly.  Get recommendations from those you trust.  Talk to the advisor first.  Consider this a first date only.  It should only proceed if both sides feel comfortable.
  • Be informed.  Take the time to do thorough research.  Searching online can help you find a lot of valuable information.  To make sure you’re using reliable sources, pay attention to the source and make sure you check any ideas on two or three other sites before proceeding.
  • Stay confident.  Take stock of what you’ve done that’s working well, and let this build your confidence.  Take the time to understand what you’ve done well, and apply those lessons again.
  • Sleep on it.  Don’t ever rush into any decisions.  If anyone pushes you to act quickly, hold your ground and insist on at least a day to think.
  • Never, ever make a move you don’t understand!  If you can’t explain a new investment or account in simple language, you’re not ready.  Keep asking questions, or walk away.

If you’re mind is clear, you’ll make much better decisions with a lot more confidence.  Learn to recognise how good that feels and then you’ll be on your way.

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Famous quotes about saving money

At 10thousandgirl, we often look to our heroes to help us stay on track.  Here’s from advice from a few of our favourites:

Never spend your money before you have earned it” – Thomas Jefferson

“Beware of little expenses.  A small leak will sink a great ship.”Benjamin Franklin

“No matter how great the talent or efforts, some things just take time. You can’t produce a baby in one month by getting nine women pregnant.”  – Warren Buffett

“Stop buying things you don’t need, to impress people you don’t even like.”  – Suze Orman

“We can tell our values by looking at our checkbook stubs.” Gloria Steinem

“Be thankful for what you have.  You’ll end up having more.”  – Oprah Winfrey

“My favourite things in life don’t cost any money.  It’s really clear that the most precious resource we all have is time.”  – Steve Jobs

“The best thing money can buy is financial freedom.”Anon


Take control of your money – we’ll show you how!

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Nanna's money wisdom

Fact is, our Nanna’s are/were Mastresses as Money – they thrifted and saved and made do because they had to.  There is so much wisdom that translates brilliantly to the modern day by looking at how they used to do it.

  • NEED vs WANT: Apply the stranger test to something you think you need. Imagine a  total stranger offering you the cash value of the thing you really, really need or the thing to you; which one you would pick?  If you choose the cash over the thing, then very seriously reconsider buying it and and simply make do with what you have instead.
  • Cut your cloth!  That means if you don’t have it, don’t spend it.  Simple and very, very effective.
  • Grow your own: Now, even with the tiniest of spaces with no garden to speak of you can still grow bits and bobs yourself.  Grow your own sprouts and herbs, for example, on your window sill.  Sprouts are expensive and super easy to grow!  If you have a garden or some kind of outside space, learn about the seasons and different plant requirements and plot your abundant year out.  Super fun, good for the soul, know what you’re eating and even better on your wallet.
  • Spend less on going out: Feeling good and relaxed doesn’t have to come in the form of cocktails at Darling Harbour (actually….), oh no, it can come in the form of the good old fashioned and free Great Outdoors!  Spend the day bush walking, or surfing, or beach running or all of it!  Plan for more cosy nights in with friends and home made pizza and a good wine instead of exxy nights out.
  • Rent Don’t Buy:  more and more items are available to rent these days; even cocktail dresses!  Rent/hire where you can if it weighs up.  Explore the Collaborative Consumption movement on social media for more brilliant sharing ideas.
  • Cook in bulk and freeze: this could save you $$ in take-aways later in the week/month.  Buying in bulk or when meat is on special means you could save money that way too.  Have fun and do it with friends and go home with a variety of meals a la MamaBake
  • Use the library: Unless you find your own personal bible (I have a few), don’t buy that story, use the library!  Libraries often have other things to borrow such as DVDs and magazines too.
  • Mend it: If you have some time and you really want to save every last penny, consider stitching up that pair of work pants rather than throwing them out and spending a pretty packet on new ones.  If you don’t sew (I don’t either!), consider finding out how much a local seamstress would charge to do it for you for less than a new pair?
  • Simply Use less:Do you really need a hearty massive squeeze of dishwashing liquid every time?  Or could you maybe go a fairy squeeze instead and still get the job done?  Go the fairy squeezes!  Go easy on loo roll, washing powder too and measure out your coffee, pasta and other ingredients too.
  • Use it up: We are all guilty of chucking stuff out before it’s well and truly done.  Roll that toothpaste tube right up and squeeze every last bit out and then when you think you have used it all up, cut the tube near the nozzle and you will find a couple of extra day’s worth hiding up there.  Get more out of your mascara by adding a couple of drops of salt water to the bottle.  Then, when it has truly all gone, use the wand as an eyebrow brush.  You can also pop your mascara in a cup of boiling water for five minutes to squeeze any last extra out of it.
  • Make your own: Instead of buying take-out pizzas each weekend, make a batch yourself one Sunday afternoon and pop them in the freezer.  make your own cleaning products using vinegar and citrus peels, make your own bakery products.  It all adds up and can save you heaps.
  • Reuse items: Just because you think something is done with doesn’t mean it actually is done with.  Old t-shirts can be used as old rags for washing down the car or windows, glass jars can be painted (or not) and turned into cool little storage containers etc etc, coffee grounds as plant food, crushed up egg shells as slug repellant.  Heaps more fab ideas around this at the 1millionwomen website.

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rent a dress

I stared blankly into my wardrobe. No, that’s not true. I started blankly around my wardrobe, which consisted of a traditional built in closet and 2x Ikea racks jammed up against a wall. Then I remembered the spare walk-in wardrobe I was also taking up at Mum and Dad’s place. It sounds like a lot, but it was no different to the wardrobes of majority of my female friends. Except for one section – the dresses.

They were, and always will be (now that I have started the business), my weak spot. Designer cocktail dresses in every colour, length and style you can imagine. There were 48 of them, two of which still had tags on them, and they totalled an investment of $20,299.00.

$20, 299.00? That can’t be right?! I did not spend a first home deposit on dresses!  EEK

And the reality is, I didn’t, because had I not spent that $20K on dresses, I would have spent it on shoes, or coats, or cocktails. Throughout my late teens and early twenties I wasn’t thinking about saving for a house. I hadn’t really even thought much about moving out, let alone making what at the time seemed like such a grown up decision to invest in property.

Now, I am 24. An age many still like to label as a ‘young, carefree, you-don’t-have-to-worry-about-anything’ time in your life. But, the truth is, we do.

I see so many young women, in my friendship circles, through my business and across social media that are worried about money. Deeply concerned that if they don’t find themselves in a job with a significantly high salary, their dreams of owning a three bedroom home in Middle Park, driving an Audi and wearing Chanel will be crushed. And yes, perhaps the dream could be toned down to a three bedroom home in the outer suburbs, a Mazda CX3 and wearing Country Road;  but the point is young women do worry about their financial future and as far as I can tell aren’t quite sure what to do to save it.

I launched my business, Her Wardrobe, an online designer dress rental store, 12 months ago. It started as the obvious solution to every girl’s problem: a closet full of clothes and nothing to wear. However, as the business evolved I quickly realised Her Wardrobe is in fact a way for women to indulge in beautiful designer clothing without losing control of their financial situation. This, by no coincidence, coincided with my dress audit, and the realisation that even if I had rented just half of all the dresses I owned I would be a little more in the green.

Let’s Illustrate the Point:

As illustrated in the infographic below, almost half of all young Australians buy things on impulse resulting in an average credit card debt of $4,200, a figure that has increased to $4,7001 since this graphic was designed just a few months ago. Just by renting 10 dresses, instead of buying them you can put $2,400 back in your pocket to spend on a trip to New York, or maybe, even start saving for your first home!



Alex Osmond is the founder of, a designer dress rental boutique dressing women Australia-wide.

She admits, that whilst she has dramatically curbed her spending habits since starting the business she is far from having it all figured out and has registered for her first Money Makeover Workshop with 10thousandgirl in August.




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Thrifty and save money

Thrifty‘:  it’s not the most glamourous of words is it?

It conjures up images of reusing your teabag, eating baked beans five days a week etc.

So let’s own thrifty. Let’s call it Wine Money. Or Shoe Money. Or Pay My Mortgage Off a Year Early Money. Or, whatever it is that motivates you to save.

Here’s our top tips to live a thriftier life and save:

1. Review your Insurance Annually

These days, there is high competition between insurance providers, so use this to your advantage. Contact at least three insurers when getting a quote for car, house, or travel insurance. And then each year, take half an hour to go through it again – why pay an extra several hundred dollars a year unnecessarily?

Don’t be put off if it’s not a ‘big name’ insurer, many of them are backed by bigger insurance companies.  For example,  did you know that Bingle is owned by Suncorp (who owns mega brands AAMI and Suncorp Insurance).

Bonus Tip: Oh, and don’t rely on the comparison sites to do your legwork – they charge insurers to be listed so they aren’t always comparing every insurer available.

2. Use your Own Bank’s ATM

If you don’t do this….then start. Today.

Most bank accounts offer a certain amount of free withdrawals each month, so use them. Walk an extra block to the CBA rather than the NAB right in front of you. You’ll not only save $2 (or more!), you’ll burn some calories too!

3. Fashion: Swap, Sell, Secondhand

Yes, retail can provide a thrill, but a shopping spree could leave you several hundred dollars poorer.

Instead – try to swap, sell, or buy second hand. Get a group of girls together for a clothes swap, buy clothes online:  Gumtree, eBay, your local Buy, Swap & Sell Facebook page, or keep an eye out for local markets.

4. Shop Smart and Save

Being a thrifty shopper does not mean a pantry of Home Brand products, instead it means shopping smarter.

Buy non-perishables when on special (toilet paper, tissues, cleaning and sanitary products, shampoo). Buy seasonal produce – good for the environment as well as your budget. Better yet, buy in bulk and do a big cook up and freeze. Do the same with meat – you can really save a lot buying in bulk, or direct from the supplier.

Bonus Tip:  Oh, and after that big shop – don’t throw your receipt out! Get into the habit of ripping that petrol voucher off and putting it straight into your wallet.  That 4 cents fuel voucher might not seem much at the time, but over the course of the year could be considerable.

5. Back to Nature

You might think you don’t have space or time to grow herbs – but you do!

One pot, some soil, one herb to start (try parsley, it’s hardy and goes in everything). The buzz of a successful crop will motivate you and in no time you’ll be branching out…mint, rosemary, thyme, sage. Think about it – regularly spending $3 on herbs, only to use a few stems and then throw the rotting mess out a few weeks later vs going to your garden to collect your own fresh herbs in the quantity that you need them…no comparison!

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2015 market trends

Here’s our run down of key current market trends that could help you make some key decisions around your personal finances.

Part-Time Jobs are Growing

There has been a definite trend over the past year in the job market. Overall unemployment is up, but one part of the job market has been growing most months: part-time jobs. With employers watching their bottom lines, this is likely to continue.

TIP: If you’re in the job market, it may be a smart idea to include part-time jobs in your search, at least to get started.

House Prices

Despite predictions of the bubble bursting, the price increases continue. Sydney and Melbourne are hot, or overheated, depending on who you ask. Other cities are gaining at a more reasonable rate and some like Perth, Canberra and Darwin have really slowed. More than ever, housing is very local.

TIP: It pays to know what’s going on in the exact local area where you want to buy.

Interest Rates

Interest rates have dropped to multi-year lows. This means it’s more affordable than ever to look at getting a home loan for your own home, or an investment property. Early in FY15, there was talk that the low rates wouldn’t last. But they have, and many experts expect that to continue. That’s a good thing – it means there’s plenty of time.

TIP: Even though the low interest rates makes home loans more affordable, don’t rush into the property market just because of the current hype around it.

Spending Continues to Slow Down

Retailers didn’t have a great Christmas and it’s been up and down since then. As a country, we’re watching our spending. Shoppers are buying on discount more than ever and retailers are responding by keeping the discounts going.

TIP: It pays more than ever to shop around – there are bargains if you look hard enough and plan ahead.

Shopping local

With the Australian dollar coming back down to more typical levels around $0.80, it’s not such a great move to shop online from overseas online retailers. The strong Australian dollar evidently was too good to last.

TIP: It’s a better move now to think local, or at least check the prices before you buy from companies such as Amazon.



When times are tight this big batch bread recipe is very handy recipe to have up your sleeve.

Bread from the supermarket just is not cheap especially if you want to buy something out of the ordinary like a light rye etc.

You do not need any kind of gadget for this – just your hands and some good old fashioned elbow grease. Don’t be put off from making your own bread – it is easy and once you get the hang of it you won’t look back.

You can alter this recipe to incorporate any special flours you have lying around. I tried one loaf with half spelt and half ordinary flour and the loaves came out really well, you might try that too.

The secret of a good loaf is in the kneading – knead , knead and knead again – hence a great recipe to get your kids involved! They love it and they can all take turns.

$4 is based on 2 kg of flour at 75 cents a kilo plus yeast, sugar, oil and salt. Cost will vary depending on your ingredients but however which way you cut it, home made will be far cheaper than buying this lot from the shops.

Okay, to start, all you need do is make up one HUGE batch of bread dough:


2kg plain flour (like I said you can use 1 kg of a different kind of flour if you like)
8 teaspoons salt
4 sachets of dried yeast
8 tablespoons olive oil
8 teaspoons sugar.


  1. Measure out the flour, salt and yeast in a very large bowl (I used a huge stockpot) and stir through until they are all mixed up.
  2. In a measuring jug fill with 1.2 litres of warm water and pour into a separate bowl.  Add sugar and oil and stir and stir until sugar is all dissolved.
  3. Add the oily water to the flour mixture until it forms a big, ginormous ball of dough.  Flour the work surface and knead that dough for as long as you can – 15 minutes -ish.  At the end you will have a lovely big smooth ball of bread dough.
  4. Pop the dough back in the stock pot and cover with a damp cloth.
  5. Okay so at this point, you can either place the covered dough in a warm corner somewhere to prove for two hours or you can stick it in the fridge overnight and bake the next morning.  Up to you.  So either way do your thing to prove the dough.
  6. If you went with the two hour option, punch down your massively-increased-in-size dough and knead again for a couple of minutes.  Preheat your oven to 240 degrees and grease two bread tins and two baking trays.
  7. Then, cut your ball of dough into four equal pieces.  Take one of those pieces and shape into a fat oblong and pop into a bread tin, do this again with the second section of the dough.
  8. Taking the third piece of dough, break into six small balls, shape as you like and pop on the prepared baking tray and into the oven with them along with both the bread tins and bake at 240 for about 10 minutes then reduce heat to 200 degrees for about 5-10 minutes (or until tops are golden brown).   When cooked, pop out on to the work surface (leave in tin) to cool.
  9. Increase the oven temp to 220-240degC.  With the fourth section of dough, break into 6 or 7 balls (palm sized) and roll each out into pizza bases – up to you re: thickness and size.  Pop on your second prepared baking tray and bake until just hardened on top.  Don’t overcook or else you’ll have far-too-crunchy pizza bases.  Allow to cool.


*Recipe and post originally published at MamaBake.


money and relationships

Are you trying to get your finances in order but your partner doesn’t seem to be on board?

It can be frustrating when you are trying to get your finances in order, stick to a strict budget to save for that house deposit in the next two years only to find your other half has just spent $60 you had designated for a credit card repayment on a pair of socks. And they keep doing this!

Random, spontaneous spending: we all do it but when it is scuppering your ongoing efforts to save for a very worthy life goal, it might be time to have a conversation with your partner so that you are unified and strong in your financial and life goals.

Here are our tips to help ease you both through:

1. Take a good hard look at yourself first

In a relationship it can be easy to point the finger when things go wrong. Have a trawl through your bank accounts for the past month or so to see what your spending habits are. Identify areas where you could reign yourself in. Make this easy for yourself – use an online budgeting tool, like the MoneySmart budget template and get things down in black and white. Then, when you go to the table for that conversation you can start the discussion by identifying where you feel you can improve.

2. Talk to one another

It isn’t an easy conversation to have. Money can be a hot topic between couples so it’s no wonder that this will be a discussion you are both looking to avoid. But, putting it on the table now means that you can both get on the road now to clarifying and understanding your financial goals together and the steps that you both need to take to get there.

Discuss your future plans, break them down into short/medium/long term goals. Pay off that debt, buy a new lounge, save a deposit. Agree and commit to them together. Feel excited together by them!

The next step is looking at your current spending pattern to identify cutbacks or changes to attain your goals. This is where things can get sketchy between you…

To keep things smooth, approach your partner with a no-blame, ‘we’re-in-this-together’ attitude.

Ask questions like:

  • “I noticed looking through our accounts that I spent a fair bit on lunches out with the girls last month. I’m happy to drop those and do something cheaper instead. How about you? Having a look through here, do you see anything you could cut back on or out all together?”
  • “Is this expense something we might cull so that we can attain our short/mid/long term goal you think?”
  • “Can we scale this expense back? What do you think?”
  • “Can you think of any ways we might reign in our spending?”

3. Compromise

It may be your partner simply must have a solid collection of snazzy socks – that without them feels like their life’s purpose is non-existent. That’s okay! Buy maybe instead of spending $60 a week on a new pair, is there a compromise position of maybe one pair a month? Create a plan. Maybe once gone through your life goals together that in fact maybe socks aren’t their thang anyway.

4. Share the Small Successes

As your plan and more controlled spending rolls out be sure to share with your partner the savings you have achieved together and link the progress to your shared goals. It always feels good to know you are on the road to success by having tangible evidence to show for your hard work.

5. Get some help!

If this is a truly hot button issue for you and your partner (and it is for many!) where you really can’t get understanding or traction, simply get in touch with a local Interrelate counsellor for a few sessions to help you both steer through these choppy waters. Often, spending habits are linked to emotions and deeply held beliefs from way back that don’t serve us as adults in our present world. Counselling is a wonderful opportunity to grow your understanding of yourselves and each other.

Helpful link:

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Women earn less than men, are more likely to have interrupted careers because of child raising and caring responsibilities and statistically live longer so need to save more for retirement. Women in Australia can expect to earn $1m less than men in their working lives.[1] The financial impact of this is that women in Australia are 2.5 times more likely than men to live in poverty in their old age.[2] There was an interesting feature on the ABC on 9th January, 2015 on older Australian women becoming homeless at increasing rates – and what young women and families can do right now in their lives to avoid this. Check out the video.


Current policy settings, including the projected increase in the Superannuation Guarantee contribution to 12%, will not of themselves deliver the level of lifestyle to the majority of those retiring over the next 20 years that we, as a nation, are aiming to achieve. The population is ageing. The number of Australians over the age of 65 will increase by 75% over the next 20 years (from 3.3 million in 2012 to 5.8 million in 2032), and at a much faster rate than the working population and with Australians are living longer, there will be proportionately fewer working Australians available to fund those in retirement.[3]


In the BCG study Women Want More the financial services sector was identified by those 12,000 respondents as the sector they feel most dissatisfied with, of all those sectors that affect their daily lives. The BCG survey results revealed that 73% of respondents were unhappy with the service level received and 71% were dissatisfied with their provider’s product offering. According to the BCG research, women are exasperated at how financial services firms serve them, offering up disrespect, condescension, poor advice, contradictory policies, endless red-tape and a one-sizefits-all approach based on the false assumption that men and women’s needs are the same.[4]

Some said “I’m scared of money”, some said “I’ve never touched money, I don’t know what to do with it.” When they say that, I always think, this is not her voice. It is the voice of history. She is the product of this history. So we have to be very patient. We have to pull off the fears which are created around her, and after a while she says, “Maybe I will try”. If a woman tries and if she is successful, then her neighbours become very interested and they say, “If she can do it, then maybe I can do it too.” And if they are successful, that will open up the snowball effect.

An excerpt from March 2010 speech by Muhammad Yunus, Nobel Peace Prize Laureate and Founder, Grameen Bank


The world has been undergoing a silent revolution over the last few decades. Women have been growing their status, capabilities and control of financial assets. So much so that in 2008 there were 1 billion working women, a figure targeted to grow to 1.2 billion by 2013,[5] by 2005 women controlled 51.3% of the US’s personal wealth or US$14 trillion, a figure expected to grow to US$22 trillion within the decade.[6] Globally, in 2008 women controlled consumer spending worth US$20 trillion, a figure expected to grow to US$28 trillion by 2013.[7]

“When individuals and family units have clear long and short term goals and a solid understanding of the simple principles behind saving, debt management, insurance, superannuation and investing – there’s a new confidence, a peace of mind and a sense of independence, gratitude and generosity that floods over them, naturally influencing their family and those they touch in their communities.”

Zoe Lamont, Founder 10thousandgirl project


[1] Australian Financial Literacy Foundation, National Centre for Social and Economic Modeling (NATSEM), International Center for Research on Women (ICRW)

[2] Julie Reilly’s 2013 publication Gender-Wise Philanthropy: Strengthening Society by Investing in Women & Girls 17 published by Women Donors Network

[3] Deloitte Dynamics of the Australian Superannuation System, The next 20 years: 2013 – 2033

[4] Boston Consulting Group, Women Want More, 2008

[5] Steve Macdonald, Investing Like A Woman, A White Paper, 2012

[6] Fara Warner, Power of the Purse: How Smart Businesses Are Adapting to the World’s Most Important Consumers – Women, 2005

[7] Boston Consulting Group, Women Want More, 2008

So join us to embrace women as an economic power force and provide the solutions to the barriers they face – Join A Money Makeover Program or Become A Supporting Partner. Alternatively contact us for more information. 

Life-is-beautifulSometimes it’s not about starting something, it’s about stopping.

Full article on LifeBuzz. Here’s the highlights – we’ve added an exercise for each idea to get your started. What # rings true for you?

#1. Stop spending time with the wrong people.

EX: Identify someone you spend time with who drains your energy. Unless they need your help, cut your time with them back a little.

#2. Stop running from your problems. – Face them head on. 

EX: Identify your #1 problem at the moment. What’s one thing you can do about it?

#3. Stop lying to yourself.

EX: What do you need to be more honest about?

#4. Stop putting your own needs on the back burner.

EX: Do something for yourself today! Just do it!

#5. Stop trying to be someone you’re not.

EX: Identify someone who you want to be like. Do you really want to be them?

#6. Stop trying to hold onto the past.

EX: Think of a memory in the past you hold onto. Take a deep breathe, fill your belly. Breathe into the memory. Now exhale, say out loud ” I let it go”.

#7. Stop being scared to make a mistake.

EX: Do something you think you’ll fail at. See what happens!

#8. Stop berating yourself for old mistakes.

EX: Repeat similar exercise from #6. Identify something you are constantly berating yourself about. Take a deep breathe, fill your belly. Breathe into the idea. Now exhale, say out loud ” I let it go”.

#9. Stop trying to buy happiness.

EX: What have you bought lately because you thought it would make you feel good? Next time you make a similar purchase, ask yourself ‘why?’. What feeling are you trying to buy? What else can you do to create that feeling?

#10. Stop exclusively looking to others for happiness.

EX: Identify a person that makes you happy? What makes them that way? What quality do they have? Mmm yes you have it too!

#11. Stop being idle.

EX: Get up today and DO something you’ve been putting off.

#12. Stop thinking you’re not ready.

EX: START. Start investing, start a conversation with a guy you like, start negotiating a career progression… just START.

#13. Stop getting involved in relationships for the wrong reasons.

EX: Focus instead on the relationship you have with yourself, all other relationships are a bonus.

#14. Stop rejecting new relationships just because old ones didn’t work.

EX: Repeat similar exercise from #6 & 8. Identify something you have experienced in a relationship in the past. Take a deep breathe, fill your belly. Breathe into the idea. Now exhale, say out loud ” I let it go”.

#15. Stop trying to compete against everyone else.

EX: Set a goal around improving yourself. About making an improvement on your efforts last week or last month, or yesterday or last year.

#16. Stop being jealous of others.

EX: Identify someone you’re jealous of. Pay them a compliment – call, email, text or in person.

#17. Stop complaining and feeling sorry for yourself.

EX: Identify something that’s great in your life.

#18. Stop holding grudges.

EX: Repeat similar exercise from #6 & 8. Identify a grudge you have. Take a deep breathe, fill your belly. Breathe into the idea. Now exhale, say out loud ” I let it go”.

#19. Stop letting others bring you down to their level.

EX: Next time someone brings you down, look them in the eye and tell them you don’t agree. And that actually… you rock at that!!

#20. Stop wasting time explaining yourself to others.

EX: Next time you find yourself explaining yourself, stop. If they get you they’ll get you.

#21. Stop doing the same things over and over without taking a break.

EX: Take a sporadic break – a walk around the block or a week away!

#22. Stop overlooking the beauty of small moments.

EX: Smile deliberately at something beautiful that catches your eye. Enjoy it for a minute +.

#23. Stop trying to make things perfect.

EX: Laugh out loud at an imperfection.

#24. Stop following the path of least resistance.

EX: Do something that CHALLENGES you.

#25. Stop acting like everything is fine if it isn’t.

EX: Ask someone for help.

#26. Stop blaming others for your troubles.

EX: Next time you catch yourself blaming someone else, bring it back to you? What could you have done differently? What can you do better next time?

#27. Stop trying to be everything to everyone.

EX: Pick your battles a friend once said to me. It’s the same with helping others. Pick a few people to support in your life, and support them well.

#28. Stop worrying so much.

EX: Jump up and down 10 times, waving your hands around above your head. Keep going till you burst out laughing – what were you worrying about again?

#29. Stop focusing on what you don’t want to happen.

EX: Life’s like a garden, you need to fertilise the plants not the weeds. Identify one of your plants (key goals) – water it!!

#30. Stop being ungrateful.

EX: No matter how good or bad you have it, wake up each day thankful for your life. Someone somewhere is desperately fighting for theirs. Say thank you for something out aloud.


What can you stop doing?



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